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Permalink Reply by Kim on February 9, 2009 at 6:57pm

Yes! Wendy, I completely agree. I think this emphasis on the outward appearance is a sign of spiritual immaturity. Personally, I want to be loved for what's inside more than what's outside. Don't get me wrong, earlier today a very sweet 18-year-old asked if I'd like to go out with him sometime. He thought I was around his age. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't flattered by that. But I was also a little sad, as in, where were you when I was a sweet young thing of 17??? Oh well.

Anyway, I know God made guys more visual, but, it just feels ungodly when someone is rejected based on appearance because it just seems like a snap judgment, and I know Jesus didn't treat us that way....

The fashion and modeling industries don't help. Their views and the way they value and devalue people are...anti-Christ. When I was a sweet young thing of 17, I was recruited by a modeling agency. I decided I wasn't interested in that occupation, so I didn't got for it. And sometimes, when I'm worshipping God, I'm so so glad that I was never part of something that is idolatrous in that it glorifies people based on their looks. It's so impure. Only God should be held in such regard.

As for me, when I see someone with a pure heart, or who sincerely wants to follow the Lord, I think, "Man, that person is sooooo beautiful."

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Permalink Reply by Wendy Jennifer on February 10, 2009 at 10:49am

Dear Kim:

I agree with you 110%. The pure of heart truly shine as does your Christian values--a lantern for many. Thank you so much for sharing. What a wonderful compliment from that 17 year old! I believe that when one lives a life of integrity and love for God, it can been seen in a person's face. There is a kindness which is beyond words.

Have a nice day.

Yours truly,
Wendy

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Permalink Reply by Kim on February 22, 2009 at 2:30pm

I think the quick answer is obviously yes, since we're still alone. The not-so-quick answer is maybe it's just not God's timing. But at my age, it's hard to believe that. I mean, how old should I be when I marry, 50? 70? Oh well. That's life.

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Permalink Reply by Mary on March 16, 2009 at 1:27pm

I don't want much: a retired high ranking military office/ mighty man of God/ somehow connected with real estate, who thinks my unstructured living makes life interesting. oh and he MUST be single. MUTUAL Physical attraction is really a must,... if we are to plan a wedding,... otherwise, we can be friends,.. no wedding necessary., MOSTLY he must be GOD's man for me and me his Proverbs 31 woman. -- It must be someone whos main focus in on God and our being together is FIRST to serve God as a team while loving and caring for eachother. I trust that God will provide all we need if He has ordained our relationship and our mission. ...is that too much to ask?

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Permalink Reply by Rich on March 19, 2009 at 12:15pm

All other things aside, a foundation for a relationship must be present. With Christ as that foundation all things are possible. Without Christ it is doomed from the start. Wishes and goals are great things, they give us a perspective that is unique to each and every one of us. With Him in our hearts beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, and we can see others as Christ would. So celebrate the differences and seek the heart. I believe the window to the soul is through the eyes, you can tell more through the countenance than a million words...... Just my thoughts ><> ><> Blessings to all.

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Permalink Reply by John Wall on March 19, 2009 at 9:57pm

Hi Ladies, oh and you too Chris, I really could careless what Hollywood or other christians or anyone does. I have always known that I have things I want or prefer in a relationship. Sometimes I think picking a mate would be much easier if I were blind, but alas I am not. So what do we do from here. I know I have a list, I know it would be simpler if the list were shorter. So I am thinking it's really about prioritizing your list. I will not bore you with my list. God bless you all and yes God does promise to meet our EVERY NEED.

John

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Permalink Reply by erin mac on June 23, 2009 at 1:23pm

Hi

Unforately men are not men anymore. Society tells us that men are dumb and useless. Men have been browbeaten. This women wants a Godly man. One that serves, willing to put into a relationship, and one that is not afraid to make difficult choices. A women is to respect her husband, it's hard to respect someone who does not respect themselves. A husband is called to Love his wife, even when it's difficult. It's not just the outward, but the inward. We should try to keep up with ourselves and not let ourselves "go". Not saying that we as women need to be a size 2 and men have to be a 29 inch waist. Just presentable.

This is my list
God bless,
erin

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Permalink Reply by Sylvia on June 25, 2009 at 6:22pm

yes

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Permalink Reply by Sylvia on June 25, 2009 at 6:24pm

I want to edit the above. I meant to say, yes, we're all too picky. Admit it. We all just want someone like ourselves. Wouldn't that be great! We'd see eye to eye on everything and be on the same schedule and wouldn't have to cook twice. Come on, admit it.

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Permalink Reply by Tameko49 on October 8, 2009 at 9:51pm

You know there are people that I have seen that can look into a person's soul and fall in love with them. It is not all about the appearance you guys. I have known many very good looking fit men that were demon possessed. Some people can't keep their weight down no matter what they do however, you are right if one is pointing the finger at another for it is written and referred to in the bible by Jesus in Matthew 7:3...

"And why do you look at the speck in your brothers eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye.?

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